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# Connect me

This is a fun writing activity that can promote empathy and connection.

### **Steps**

1. This game should ideally be played with all cameras on if the participants are online.
2. The facilitator types in a word or a phrase, one at a time. Examples: strawberry, New York, sky, ball, one year. 
3. Participants have 1-2 minutes to write something about themselves associated with the word or phrase - or something they associate with the word or phrase. 
4. Facilitator plans a speaking order and sets a timer for 2 minutes.
5. Sentences are shared. 
6. The facilitator shares the next word or phrase.
7. After one round or more, there can be a brief reflection before going on to the next word.

### **Reflection**

* What was this activity like for you? 
* Did you discover anything? 
* How did this activity make you feel? 
* What did you learn about other people today?

#### **Tips**

* Depending upon the groups’ level of maturity, a participant could suggest a word and send it to the facilitator.
* Depending on the group’s median age, words (like justice, hope, safety, etc.) can be more evocative and challenging, and touch off deeper conversation.